"Come, follow me," Jesus said, "and I will make you fishers of men." Matthew 4:19
From the water, a thin, frail looking man with rolled nets came about. Minutes ago, only his head could be seen above water. As he continued to walk from the water towards the shore, a beaming smile could be seen on his face.
We continued taking pictures along the beach, as our overnight stay at Almalin Resort in Lobo, Batangas is about to end. We had to leave by mid-morning to catch a side trip to the nearby Malabrigo lighthouse. The 'AquaMan' (since I did not know where he came from other than the water) kept on stealing glances at us and smiles when we laugh. Then, I decided its time.
I walked over to him as he dug a long stick into the soft sand. He fumbled on his tangled nets as we exchanged "Good mornings."
Setting up the stick to help him untangle his nets. |
I used to be a foreigner, too. |
Untangling the nets. |
"Ano ba yang mga kasama mo Ineng? Taga-saan ba kayo? (Where are your friends from? Where are you from)?"
"Taga Makati po kami Kuya. Mga foreigner po sila. Magkakasama kami sa trabaho.(We are from Makati. They are foreigners. We all work together.)"
Reminiscing his experience abroad. |
This is something that I love to do. |
He introduced himself as Kuya E. He has a family and they live nearby. He said that fishing is a part of his daily morning routine.
"What do you do with the fishes Kuya? Do you sell them? How much?"
"Naku, hindi Ineng. Pang kain lang namin. Konti lang naman ang kinukuha ko. (Oh, no. We consume it. I only get enough.)
From there, he told me that he is not a 'commercial' fisherman. It is just something that he loves to do. He is almost 60 years old, a grandfather, and a father to professionals. He used to travel for work. He had been to Japan and Guam to work for his family until his children finished school.
He glanced at my colleagues playing on the shore and said, "Buti naman at nag-eenjoy sila dito. (Its a good thing that they enjoy it here.)"
Posing with Hao - my Vietnamese colleague. |
He began to tell me of some of his experiences abroad. There were times that the loneliness is too much to bear. He said he wanted to go home to the Philippines, but he could not because it would deplete his savings - if he only knew - that he is face to face with someone who's done it quite a few times.
Anyway, I asked him why he loved to fish as his morning exercise. Why not biking? Or jogging? What's with the fish, Kuya?
The fishy question got a personal answer.
"Alam mo Ineng, nung kabataan ko, balak ko sanang maging pari. Di ba ang mga disipulo ay pawang mga mangingisda? (You know, when I was a lot younger, I wanted to be a priest. Just like the disciples - aren't some of them fishermen)?"
He started to account his unrequited dream. "Kapag nangingisda ako naiisip ko yung sabi ni Kristo na 'be like fishers of men'. Noon, gusto kong makapagsilbi sa mas maraming tao at makuha and loob nila para sa Panginoon. (Every time I am fishing, I think about what Christ said, 'be like fishers of men.' I really want to touch other peoples lives through service and lead them back to the Lord.)"
"What prevented you from doing so? There must be a pretty good reason for choosing the another path."
I wanted to be a priest. |
"Nagkapamilya eh.Siguro hindi ko kakayanin kasi masyadong malaki ang mundo para mabago ko. Na realize ko nung nagkapamilya ako at nagtrabaho sa ibang bansa. Nabago ko ang buhay ng pamilya ko. Napagtapos ko ang mga anak ko. (I was able to have a family. Maybe because the world is too much for me to change. I realized this when I had my family. I was able to change my own family's life by having my children finish school.)"
And he asked for me to note, "Hindi mo kailangang baguhin ang mundo para may maibalik ka sa Kanya. Tama na may pagbabago kang magagawa para sa mga taong mahal mo."
Make a difference by showing your love. |
Priesthood never occurred to me, but I have to agree. "You do not need to change the world to give back to the Maker. It is enough that you can make a difference in the lives of the people you love."
With that small talk during that small walk, Kuya E got me fishing for more way to show much love. A fisher of man, indeed.